beware of falling pride
We said today we would talk. He arranged a neutral location. We got take out. Then he tells me he has to take his new car for stereo repairs. The car that he has had less than a month. The car that needed stereo repairs the day after he bought it. When I asked when [...]
Stick to your guns. Put your foot down. Don’t be a doormat. Shit. I didn’t. I have been lulled into passive agressive codependent interactions. I keep holding on to the sweet way he said he would try harder to learn about the nature of my conditions. I let my guard down. We just passed our [...]
We are so far apart, I am shocked. I thought we were on a different pages. It seems like we are in different books. It’s not conducive with the girls’ therapy schedule for us to stay at mom’s everyday. I have spent two very uncomfortable 3 days stretches at home. Tense conversations. Awkward moments in [...]
I could have kicked him out. I could have maintained a stable life for my kids. He’s gone at work so much and playing games the when he his home. So its not like they would feel a disturbance in the force. That is the whole point of us moving to my mom’s. He now [...]
